Thursday, September 6, 2012

Bobby passes away (October 1996 - 6th September 2012)

Bobby passed away peacefully in his sleep at about 3.30am this morning.

Yesterday morning, at 5am, he threw another seizure. We managed to stop the seizure using the icepack and diazepam. I fed him a good breakfast after that and he was still able to walk around, though a little disorientated. All afternoon, he slept. By evening, I tried to feed him dinner, but he did not want to eat anymore. He vomited a little bit of digested food after that and slept on.

I checked on him many times throughout the day. Towards evening, his body seemed a little stiff at times. I already knew his end was near.

Late in the evening, as Bobby lay sleeping, I told him I'd give him a trim and make him look real nice. I managed to trim off the stained brown fur around his snout due to his eye discharge. Normally, it is very difficult to trim the fur in this area, but he let me do it. I managed to trim away all the stained fur on his paws as well. I told him he looked really nice and neat.

At bedtime, we took him upstairs as usual. Bobby had always slept with us, every single day, for the past 16 years. I stayed with him and thanked him for having looked after all of us all these years. Deep down, I did not want him to suffer. If it's time to go, I would prefer that he goes peacefully. Bobby had survived two other seizures before this. He bounced back and was alright. Yesterday's was his third seizure. When I tried to feed him dinner yesterday evening, his mouth was already stiff and he could no longer close his mouth. I didn't want him to deteriorate slowly and not be able to eat anymore.

As I sat beside him, stroking his fur, I told him it's alright to go. He had already fulfilled his duty of looking after us so well, and looking after every single kitten that we have fostered and adopted.

Late into the night, I kept checking on him every few minutes. His breathing was just a little heavy but he was completely at peace. As the night wore on, I dozed off for short moments, waking up to check on Bobby. At 3.30am, I checked and Bobby was gone. It must have just happened as his body was still warm.


 Thank you for all you've done for us, Bobby.


I console myself that rebirth is immediate and Bobby is already in a better place.


Life never dies; this life expires because the body can no longer sustain it, but life continues on in a higher form. Higher, because of all the good one has done and Bobby has certainly done so, so much good in this life.


We brought Bobby downstairs so that the cats could say goodbye to their dearest friend, nanny and protector.




 



 



 


 As the cats came one by one, Bobby eyes somehow opened.




 



 



 



 


 Indy, Bunny and Cleo kept Bobby company.



Later, as the rest of them had breakfast, Indy stayed by Bobby's side.


We will be arranging for Bobby's cremation today.


Thank you, everyone, for all your kind wishes for Bobby through the years, especially after he became blind and deaf.


No words can sufficiently describe how loyal and magnanimous Bobby had been all these years. There is just so much to say about all that he had done so selflessly and compassionately. Bobby never demanded anything from us; he just wanted to care for everyone.


Bobby's life is to be celebrated because of all the joy and happiness he had brought us and the lessons he had taught us about unconditional love.


May you be well and happy in a wonderful place now, Bobby.

47 comments:

Koo said...

My condolences to you and your family. RIP Bobby.

chankahyein said...

Thank you, Koo.

Alida said...

Good bye Bobby. Wish you all the happiness in Doggy heaven. Thank you for all that you have taught us about love and compassion.

Evelin said...

My condolences to you and your family.... am glad he did not suffer but passed on peacefully. You've taken great care of him.

chankahyein said...

Thank you, dear friends.

Beng Kai said...

My condolences to you & family on the passing of Bobby.

Eugene said...

Farewell,Bobby.

Thank you for being such a good friend to all the kittens and cats. Thank you for taking care of Teddy and Xiao Li when they were with you.

May you have a good rebirth and may you be happy where ever you are now.

BlackieAsh said...

Im sorry for your loss..May Bobby rest in peace and im sure he will be in better place now.

Akmar said...

R.I.P. Bobby.. we'll miss you terribly.. my condolences to and your family, Dr. Chan.. ~hugs~

reena kong said...

RIP, Bobby.

Donovan said...

Dear Dr Chan... my deepest condolences to you and your family. I will miss Bobby although I've only known him for a short time. May he rest in peace and meet you again at the Rainbow Bridge.

Mutt said...

I can't belp but think of how lucky Bobby was to have you and all of his feline friends in his life. From the tales you shared it seemed to be a reciprocal relationship full of many lessons, gifts, and blessings. My thoughts are with you and your family. Peace.

Connie said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. I met him once only but I felt like I knew him for a million year. Bobby, you will be among the million stars shining bright up in the sky every night ; woofing, running, chewing happily on the celesitical bone (a gift by the universe for being the greatest dog on earth) & still guarding your family on planet earth.

My deepest condolences to Dr Chan and family.

Yen Ling said...

My deepest condolences to you and family. Rest in peace dear Bobby. Is an honour knowing you. You are a great pal to all. HUGS.

julie pek said...

Dear Sis Ky and family
Bobby is greatly admired by many. I often times show to my muslims friends that Bobby is so loving and the cats even loved Bobby and even able to play and climb on Bobby. What a lovely sight to behold. Bobby's pictures and love stories will always be a "teaching guide" to animal lovers that wish to promote loving animals to others.
Your family's love towards Bobby and vice versa have left an impact on those rescued animals that you take in into your home and also to the many readers of Animalcare.
It is with gladness that Bobby passed on peacefully with no pain and also we all will feel the missing him. Thanks for sharing Bobby stories with all of us.. and we love him as much as your family have.
Julie Pek

Suzanna said...

my condolences to u & ur family.
he was lucky to be with you during his life.
u have done a great job. god bless u.

rest in peace, Bobby.
u'll be missed dearly.

ps; i love how u put the words beautifully. having my 8 y.o cat died last week, i wish i could do the same.

Megaa said...

Our deepest condolences to you & to your family Dr.Chan.

Andy and Emily said...

Our condolences to you & family. Take care.

Fenton said...

I'm sorry to hear your loss... birth and dying are the law of nature. He has crossed over the rainbow and having a great time now, reuniting with all his passed friends and families.

chankahyein said...

Thank you, everyone, for your very kind wishes. Bobby is very blessed.

Lynn Yap said...

Dear Dr. Chan,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family, Bobby was a gem that lit your lives. Let the good memories remain, for life is impermanent and Bobby had the most wonderful and loving life. A very touching tribute you have posted, I am sure many are touched by your love for him, as I am.

Take care.

Regards,
Lynn

melle said...

Rest in peace, Bobby.

You have lived a magnificent life and have been blessed with a wonderful family- both human and furry alike.

Linda Low said...

My condolences to you and your family. RIP Bobby - you are more than a pet for you have not only enrich your family's lives and touch their hearts but you have also leave your paw prints in our (readers) hearts!

Joy E. Saga said...

My heartfelt condolences Kah Yein and to your family (humans and cats).

Bobby is now at the rainbow bridge, and he is able to see again. God bless!

azura said...

Im deeply saddened by the demise of dearest bobby. It has been attached to my heart since I follow this blog. Deepest condolences to the family. My prayers go to u Dr Chan, family and your furkids. Rest in peace dearest Bobby. U will be dearly missed by all of us.

peggy tiong said...

Kah Yein, my condolences to you and yr family. He will be missed by all. Rest in peace Bobby, and may you be in a better place.

Amy said...

Amitabha,may Buddha bring Bobby to Buddha's pureland . Amitabha.

Colin Kuan said...

It's always sad when a dog which has touched our lives so much passes on. My condolences.

sandra said...

RIP Bobby, you will be deeply missed by all of us. You will always remain in our hearts.

in said...

My deepest condolences to you and everyone (with and without fur) at home. It is very sad when a beloved furkid passes on, it brought back sad memories for me ......but we must rejoice that they are in a better place now, young and healthy.

Linda said...

Dear Dr. Chan,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family on the passing of Bobby. May he rest in peace.

Zamzaliza said...

RIP uncle Bobby :(

Wong Yoke Mei said...

My condolences to you and your family....Bobby had led a good life and was greatly loved. He will always be in our hearts....Take care Kah Yein...

Sai Mei & Coco said...

My condolences on Bobby's passing. Whereever he is now, may be well and happy.

Chun Eng said...

Dear Dr. Chan,

I am sorry to hear of the sad passing of Uncle Bobby. As the saying goes, “All dogs go to heaven”, I believe that Uncle Bobby is now in a better play, probably chasing butterflies in a sunny meadow filled with daffodils.. Please take care.

Jennifer said...

My deepest condolence to you and your family. Bobby reminded me very
much of Shiloh. I just cannot hold my tears reading your blog of him.
May God bless his soul and grant him peace forever.

Pamela said...

Sorry to hear about Bobby, even though I have not met Bobby but through your blog I feel like I have known him like a dear friend for a long time. Stories about Bobby has taught me many valuable lessons in life for being compassionate and caring for others for which I am thankful. He will be greatly missed. I hereby wish Bobby a very blessed rebirth. Thank you and take care Dr Chan.

Kazz said...

I'm sorry to hear about Bobby Dr. Chan...but like you said, he is peaceful now. Pls be strong like i know you are. It so happens that today is my Cookie's 2nd year anniversary and i'm sure Cookie and Bobby are happily playing together

Nui said...

Dear Sis Chan,
I am very sorry to hear about Bobby's passing. He is such one of the lucky living beings who has the opportunity to be with people with wisdom like you and your family.
I confident that with all his good deeds that he has done throughout his life time will definitely send him off to a better and happier realm.
Thank you.
Sukhi Hotu!
Nui, Kwanta, Kwanchai, Kwanchit & her children and Thongdam & her children

Maria said...

Best wishes and strength to you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the happy memories you have of him. Peace.

HH said...

Condolences to you, your family and furkids. I only started reading this blog after petknode case and been following Blueys stories faithfully. Bobby has really served a lot for the little animals. May he rest in peace.

Devi Narayanan said...

Dear Kah Yein. I am really shocked to hear the news. Its so heartbreaking to hear that DEAREST BOBBY is no more. I have not seen him in person but I understood how loving he is thru all your postings about him. I know NO WORDS can console you. He has left you & us the sweetest memories. I believe he will come back to you, maybe in a different form. My condolence to you my friend.

Huey said...

My condolences to you and your family, Dr Chan. May Bobby be well and happy on his new journey from now on.

claire said...

RIP Bobby!

My condolences to you and family. He was truly blessed to have you and whole care for him in a loving home through out the years.

Cassandra said...

My deepest condolences to you & your family. Bobby was indeed a small littel being with a big heart.

Azimah Othman said...

Dr Chan, my deepest condolence to you & family (the furkids too)

evelyn choy said...

My deepest condolence to you and family.
R.i.p Bobby...i was so sad to read the story of his loyalty to everyone of you through out the 16 year..its a very touching and heartbreaking news for me.. I wish god will bless him in other world..